I wonder, why we go into marriage? Is it because we love each other? If so, why the love faded off after we got married? Husband, where's the patience I see in you before married? Husband, where is the passion you have on bed when we make love before married? Husband, where is your soft spoken manner you have before married? Husband, where is the love between us?
A friend of mine asked me, what's marriage? Why people change after married? And why the feelings no longer the same after married? Why the love no longer there? I think, this is very simple... because we are human and we tends to take things for granted.. no matter what. As a wife, people will says, the duty of a wife is do all the houseworks, serve the husband well, give birth to many children as your womb can handle/ your financial can manage. When we do not do either one of the above, we are the bad woman, we are the one who didn't do our duty, we are the one to blame on.
In this new century, women work as much as men do, women face the same pressure from work as men do. However, we still have to clean the house, do the cooking, take care of the babies, serve our husband on bed.. and the husband can just spend his time on play online game, PS2/ PS3/ Wii/ XBox, watch TV/ Football/ Wrestling. When husband wanted to have sex, if we say NO, then it's our fault that we didn't fulfill our husband's needs. We can blame no one but ourself if our husband got a mistress or having affair/ affairs with other sexy/ not sexy girl/ girls. If we requested for sex, then we are 'miang'/b*tch. When have sex, make sure the husband has his orgasm. Ours? Forget it...
Women been fighting for centuries to this stage. Sadly to say... we are still trapped in those traditional thinking.
