Housewife......

My mom told me that I can't be a god mother or have any god daughter till I got myself married!!! Ahhh!! I can't be god mother..... Have to wait lohh.... wait till got someone wanna marry me... and tied me down make me an aunty... Hahahhahaa...

I don't want to be aunty... ok??? I want to be a HOT MAMA... or SEXY WIFE... not the desperate one or the stay in the HOUSE one.. :P

Mentioned about HOUSEWIFE.... I still remember one of my collegemate used to have an ambition that is become a HOUSEWIFE.... kakakakaa... I still remember that all of us teased her about this ambition of her always... Her dream didn't come true.. she is married but not a HOUSEWIFE... she is still working with a few months old baby girl now. We still teasing her about this nowadays....

As we become elder and elder.. we realised that it is not easy to be a HOUSEWIFE... the most powerful challenge is to handle your loneliness and the workloads... Imagine how bored it is to stay home alone to do all the houseworks without kids... the works to be done will kill you faster if you have kids...

Then, we also have to bear with the facts that the hubby actually has no interest on you anymore as they think you are ugly/lausy/dumb/boring because you no longer "in-touch" with the WORLD.... they think that you only stay in the cage named HOME.. and your topic is surrounded by market, kids and neighbours. BORING!!!

Women stayed in the CAGE because of love... but is there anyone that will appreciate her sacrification? I wonder... I don't mind to be a HOUSEWIFE if my hubby able to feed me with monthly allowance of rm5K at least... and I got a maid that serve me and my kids... So, I still have time to dress up myself, to make myself beautiful and sexy, to fill up my brain with knowledge.. and most important.. have time and energy for sex and communication. Why I said this is most important??? Because this is the excuse most of the man use to bail other girls for affair.

"We no longer communicate with each other."

"We do not have sex for decades..."

"We stay to each other because of the kids..."

"My wife do not care of me anymore..."

"She only care for the kids..."

Women, not only have to take care of the family, do houseworks, take care of our body shape and health, not to be out of touch with the WORLD, also have to be ENJOY sex even you tired like hell... and have to know how to fight SMARTLY with those young and vain girls... If women found that they have affair with a young man, then she is a BITCH! and has to face so many judges...

While men, can just have affair and tell something irresponsible.... "MOST OF THE MARRIED MAN ALSO HAVE GIRLFRIEND, JUST THAT THEY DIDN'T GET CAUGHT" and ..... CASE CLOSED.

Why is it so difficult to be a woman????