Sex before Marriage......

I read an interview days before. A lady, who is a relationship advisor, professional and therapist. She talked about SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.... is very important!!!!!!

She brought up a question, "Why we can't have sex before marriage?" As long as we know clearly on what we are doing and we are protecting ourself well, it is not a problem to have sex before marriage. She also mentioned that only LOVE is not strong enough to hold 2 different person together, but by adding in SEX, the relationship will be so strong to destroy. This is due to the intimate feelings bond us together.

When you able to have sex with someone, means you feel comfortable with that person. If not, you won't be able to be naked in front of that person. Imagine that you are actually showing your spare tyre to someone, how could you do it if you do not feel comfortable or trust that person who going to have sex with you? A person's hidden personalities always expose easily when he/ she is on bed, therefore, faster go have sex with someone you think he/ she is the POTENTIAL one. Hahahahaahah....

Having sex before marriage also able to tells how well both of you can get along. If either party feel not comfortable with the other party when having sex, the problem can always be fix more faster and easier. If really can't work out, at least we won't have the problem of STUCKING IN THE MARRIAGE. It sound ridiculous that we telling the Judge the reason of divorce is..."I don't like the way he/ she fuck me." :P Of course, communication between 2 person will also help lots on improving sex life. But, I do wonder how many do really tells their bf/ gf on how they feel on sex. For myself, I will tell if I really do not like what he is doing to me... But I will still find it's not easy to say out as it might hurt the man's ego. You know lah....men... always ego ego one...

One night stand is called "ONE NIGHT LOVE" among chinese, this lady did talked about ONE NIGHT LOVE. One Night Love is not love... Feelings is not included. It's purely on physical sactisfaction but everyone putting it in a ROMANTIC way just to hide their lusty desire. We all know clearly that what is ONE NIGHT STAND, just to release our lust and that's all... no feelings involved.. If really got feelings, it won't last for ONE NIGHT only, it will be MANY NIGHTS STAND. So there you can understand why I never really want to mentioned about my ONE NIGHT STAND as it is all because of my lust. It can't deny that I do have NEEDS too.. anyway, I'm a human [this statement is what I've learn from those men that flirt around].

I do agreed with her that sex before marriage is very important, not only to know a person well, but to see whether we are compatible on sex, behaviours and point of view as well. I do believe that men do show their REAL COLORS after they ATE you. Firstly, I saw few of them. Secondly, they thought you are already labeled by them and you won't go away. Sex is not what so important but the personalities of the man you going to spend your time with. What's the big deal that he has a big cock with good oral skills but he is an abuser who always beat you up? Will you die because of that big cock and tongue? I won't lohhh...

Yes, to find someone that compatible on sex and personalities with yourself is very difficult .. But still, there's always a HOPE.. There are many fishes in the pond mah.... still got many trees in the forest... Relationship, it's the mixture of TRUST, TOLERATION, SEX, LOVE, SACRIFACTION & SATISFACTION. I'm demanding, I can't live with a relationship that lack of either one as above.

Yes, I'm always greedy on LOVE & SEX.