Sunday, April 23, 2006

Sex with Friend......

Have you ever have sex with your friend??

I never have such experience. I wonder how it feel?

Friends, someone who standing beside you, support you when you are down, laughing on nonsense with you, lend their ears to you when you need to speak out, discuss your problems with you when you want to talk about it. Friends, who always be our mental support.. someone we cherish alots as our family members.

Having sex with friend... is same as having sex with our family members. Aaaawwww.... terrible.

But, I do have the experience that friends asked me to be his sex buddy. Ya, FRIENDS... not only one. I wonder what they see in me and made them to have this guts to asked me that question. Of course, they did not ask in a very direct way. I'm not LULU [not stupid], I can read between lines. I made myself very clear, and told them off.

Friend is friend, I never over stepped the line. Unless, both of you have mutual understanding that both of you will go into sex buddy relationship instead of friendship. I can't imagine, one day, I see my friend's penis, caressing him and let him to put his thing in me... WAHHH!!!!! scary.

Sex with friends, will only happen to me when I'm dreadfully desperate in sex or when I'm 100% drunk or I'm on estacy.

Imagine..... having sex with a friend, no chemistry, no sparks, no love.... only friend. I don't know how to face my friend after I have sex with him.... I feel too shame to have him as my friend anymore.

Friends, is for us to cherish, but not to have sex. Settle myself with a dildo/ vibrator will make me feel much better than have sex with a friend.

6 comments:

Chan Kok Kuen said...

Sex with friend? well it's a very interesting question. Yes you can have sex with friends who enjoy sex as part of live. You must be horny and sex hungry to endulge in such activities.

But I can say that most of the time the sex thing evolve not only from a love relationship but also from afairs. Being a married man, after having sex with the same woman,one may wonder how would be like or would want to try with another woman. If there is an opportunity, no strings attached sort of an affair, surely the spark would start. As the sayings goes "where got cat don;t eat fish!!"

Of course, when a friend asked you for sex so directly, you will be turned off. But if there's a spark, anything can happen.

If you look at the survey done on the younger generations now (including me) having multiple partner (sexual or non-sexual) is very common. why? It's the influence of the west and the changing life style of people.

But I do have to warn you, whether friend or not friend sex, always insist on "safe sex". A condom a day keep the diease away, you will never know!!

Miss Blurry said...

Ya, there is where come Mr. Peter and ST. They want something different to make their boring marriage life more interesting. Ya, safe sex, very important.. unless I know someone's history very well.

So, you eat FISH too eh?? Mr. Chan. Hahahahhahaa....

Chan Kok Kuen said...

Hey, I am cat... must eat FISH!!!

Miss Blurry said...

So, it's a home fish or outside one? hahahhahaha...

Chan Kok Kuen said...

As mentioned earlier, the home fish has become a bit less tastier than outside fish! But outside fish very hard to get. I am also not that brace lie your friend to ask for sex so out right. So at the moment, the fishing rod is out but no fish are biting! You wanna to try to bite?

Miss Blurry said...

GOOD TRY!!! Mr. Chan.

Hahahahhahahaa..