Timing......

Timing is very important for 2 person to be couple or further on in a relationship. Right time, wrong person... Wrong time, right person..both only bring us sadness, disappoinment...

Let's say...

A- Lady, been through many bad experience in relationships. Reach the age to get marry.
B- Man, still fresh in relationship stuff. Reached the age to be settle down. Everything seems new and still want to explore more about GIRLS in this world.

When these 2 person get together... do you think they will end up married and spend the rest of their life together??? My answer is ---> No. Because the man does not want to marry as relationship is still a new thing for him. A is only something like new toy... bring him excitement, made him to be more understand on lady... let him experiencing how's a real relationship does goes...

When A wanted to settle down, wanted to rest and has her own family... B might not the one for her as he is still happy happy exploring the world of Relationship. Or maybe B does not really into the relationship as much as A thought. Of course A will feel disappointed but B feel nothing at all. For B, why want to marry so early?? I not yet have enough fun of this!!! For A, I'm tired to wondering around... I love him and my biological clock is ticking... Why don't we get marry?

2 difference thinking, because 2 difference timing. The ending will be A very disappointed on B and thought that B actually does not love her. And they break off.

Women, very easy species. Once they confirmed that this is the man that she love, there has no others thinking in their mind but to settle down with them. But men, they will never concern on how his lady feel, but what he wanted. They will only marry when he feel that he wanted to settle down.

From most of the cases I heard, I realised that most of the marriage happened because the girl wanted to get marry or the girl's family give pressure or the guy is overage for marriage. Some guys might still single when they are 40.. please refer to the movie "40 Years Old Virgin"... The actor is indirectly wanted to marry anyway. Who does not want to have someone special in their life??

It's sad when you know that the Timing is actually not matched. Timing.... always the reason for those lovely couple to ended their story. If you are a guy, and you do love or appreciate someone who is loving you so much...and both of you are at the age to be settle down... do not only think on yourself. Disappointment may kills the relationship... timing too.

How would you feel when there come a day that you propose to her... she told you..."you are actually missed the right time..". Nothing will come back to you once you have missed it... especially FEELINGS.

Couples that been together for too long time always break-up... Why??? because they missed the right time for the right words from either party.