Gifts......

The above are the gifts I got from SOMEONE's FAMILY ... First time I have so many Christmas Gifts... :P Not the gifts that count, but the heart and care... What I got??? 2 cook books, Bodyshop shower gel, Biotherm lip gloss, Mobilephone accessory, Scarf, Smarties, Hands care product, Fragrance pack and one very heavy but nice key chain? I'm not sure what's that for actually... :P Just something to hang as decoration on your handbag or whatever.

Ate a lot of FATTENING FOOD.... very guilty now...... tried not to eat lunch today... but I'm too hungry and ended up I bought a pack of nasi lemak from Giant plus a fried chicken... More guilty now... damn!!!!! Today, I try not to make myself coffee also... Kakakka...ya, I didn't drink coffee today... but was so sleepy and less energy...

Today, I was lazing around in the office... not really in mood to work... :P deeply in holiday mood... I think everyone also the same as today is kinda relax and easy day... What a working day... How nice it would be if everyday also like this got nothing much to do. I know it's IMPOSSIBLE lahhh... :P

This necklace and the set of earring and necklace are the gifts I got for my best friend and my mom... Nice eh?? :) And I also got someone a branded belt... forgot to take photo of it... Kakakaka..... and SOMEONE got me the BENEFIT COMESTIC SET as my Xmas gift mahhh.... :) I'm using it... looks very pretty liao... :P

This Christmas was a very very very busy and exhausted one... but, still fun. After Christmas, there come New Year... 2007 is coming... and I'm older... WAH!!! sad!!!!!

Resolution of Yr 2007....
- SLIM DOWN
- SETTLE DOWN IN MY CAREER
- NO MORE BAD TEMPER
- HEALTHY
- BE HAPPY & SWEET ALWAYS
- MORE MONEY
- GET MARRY

All are difficult to reach... LOLZ!!!!! Anyway, try my best loh.....

Christmas eve.....

People said.... "Christmas eve is the night to get laid..." I heard about this since I'm very young... from newspapers I think... My mom only say that to me when I was in college... Every year also I will read about this in newspapers, to warn those young innocent couples not to try out the NEW EXCITING ACTION in this lovely happy season.

Last time, the innocent stupid me will think, "AIYA!!! Y MUST CHOOSE THIS NIGHT??? SO EASY TO GIVE VIRGINITY TO PEOPLE MEH???? ". Then, when I'm elder, I will think..."HA!!! WHO WILL GET LAID TONIGHT LERRR???" Now, I will think..."YEW!!! I WANT IT EVERY NIGHT LAH!!!" Hahhahahaa.... no lah..where got so terrible... I just trying to tell that nowadays.. youngster no longer so innocent as we used to be.

Seriously.... my 1st night with my ex-bf was on Christmas Eve... Hahahahaha... it's all because of the ROMANTIC FEELINGS around us.... I always love Christmas as every shopping mall will decorate the mall very nicely, beautiful and it's the time where all of the malls got SALES!!! :P Ya, as a SHOPPING FREAK... I never missed out this wonderful sales period... [I spend a lots already... :( ]

Anyway, it's funny when we think back on the old thinking and compare with today's world.

So, what am I going to do on this coming Christmas Eve??? MAKE LOVE loh!!! What else??? LOLZ... Dinner, Gifts Exchange... That's all.. :)

Time to prepare NEW YEAR RESOLUTION... but I'm too lazy now... Arghh... will update soon then... :P


Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.... to myself...and to my family and those who I love!!!

MeRRy ChRisTMasSsSsSssssss.......

YEAH!!!!!! Christmas is just around the corner.... Happy Happy ehh.... In holiday mood liaooo.... Kekekekke.....

Look at the cutey bearsss... Another Xmas gift I got for this year... Wondering how someone know that I do collect McD's toys... Do I looks CHILDISH??? Anyway... Thankssss ya... :)

I bought some small gifts for my cousins this year... Just something cheap.. but think that they will be happy to get some gift at this lovely season... :)

Can't wait for Christmas day to comeee....... We wish you a merry christmas... we wish you a merry christmas... we wish you a merry christmas... and a happy new yearrrrrrrrrrrrrr

YEAH!!!!!!!!

LOLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

?錢毆打‧恫言閹割副經理被越南太太虐待
updated:2006-12-20 21:24:01 MYT

（吉隆坡?）51歲的高級副經理娶了一名越南女子當老婆，結果新婚生活有如一場惡夢的開始；他除了被受過軍訓的老婆狂打，還被逼寄錢救濟老婆家人，老婆沒有錢就發狂，甚至恫言割斷他的子孫根，令他提心吊膽不敢睡覺。這名葉姓男子是在一間保險公司?融部當副經理，原本是一名逍遙自在的鑽石王老五。他最近賣掉一間屋子套到一些現金，加上朋友推薦通過代理認識到太太；

他和太太從見面、認識到擺喜酒結婚是在1個月的時間內倉促進行。求張天賜遣送太太回國自認是這場婚姻受害者的葉先生週三（20日）在多名好友的陪同下，向馬華公共服務及投訴部主任拿督張天賜求助，要求代理出面解決這個問題，為他作主遣送太太回國，他真的不能忍受被毆打，更日夜擔心太太半夜真的會割掉他的子孫根，有時候連吃飯都擔心被下毒，這種日子他真的捱不下去。

葉先生說，他跟其太太於今年7月第一次在代理安排下見面就很投機，對方過后搬去他家住；開始時，該名28歲的女子很勤勞，打理家務井井有條，但是結婚后對方的態度就改變了，一天到晚都向他討錢要寄回家，每次都是數千元美金。他娶老婆已花了逾5萬令吉，賣了兩間屋子的現金都花光，還要向老母親借錢。

太太受過軍訓
葉先生的老婆在越南受過軍訓，對搏擊、射擊和突襲都有一定程度的訓練，她雖然身型不算高大，但是非常健壯，葉先生絕對不會是她的對手。葉先生說，他太太是在無意中向他透露在越南受過類似服兵役的生活，他每次被打都沒有機會還手，他說自己不是不夠她打，她只是不想打女人，但是他每次想到枕邊人有如一名特種部隊成員時就很害怕，擔心睡醒時其重要部位已被割下來。

他說自己想太多了，但是吃飯時還是想過，對方會不會下毒藥毒死他。他記得有一次告訴老婆不想有孩子，結果老婆在他面前亮刀搖晃，嚇到他半死。

一杯拉茶改變生活
他和太太第一次見面是在嘛嘛檔，他請了對方喝一杯拉茶就將對方帶回家住，這杯拉茶改變了他平靜的生活。他說，代理當時告訴他一共有3名人選，他不想太多選擇，因此只要求對方帶一個最適合的人給他看看，他們在第一次見面就有一點感覺。他花了1萬4000令吉作為手續費，原本他沒有那么快做決定，他怪這名代理不斷慫恿他，還說有意思就盡快辦好手續結婚，否則這名女子很快就被送回國，令他作出了這項錯誤的決定。

<吁本地男子引以為鑑>
"我希望有意娶外國女子尤其是越南女子的男人小心提防，不要步上我的後塵。"他說這段經歷絕對是他一生不可以忘記的事情，雖然他覺得他太太是愛他的，但是可能更愛他的錢。

張天賜希望所有有意娶越南姑娘的本地男子引以為鑑，他已多次提醒，因為大家的文活習慣和文化有異，本地男子應該三思才迎娶外國女子，他會寫信要求越南駐馬大使注意此事，不要讓一些不良的代理利用有意嫁來大馬的越南女子幹下不法勾當或持不良目的。

太太婚後討錢都要美金"我太太和我結婚後每次討錢都要美金，他說越南人喜歡用美金，她每次討錢都有藉口，最后一次叫我救濟她，還說她母親在越南欠下大耳窿錢。""我老婆會講華語，她明白甚麼是大耳窿，原來越南也有大耳窿，我也是第一次听到，她每次討錢都是要寄錢回去，不是弟弟要錢，就是哥哥要，最后連母親都欠債累累。" 葉先生說他已花了逾5萬令吉在太太身上，他除了給現錢也給買了很多名貴東西給她，他自認做足丈夫本份。

（星洲日報‧2006/12/20)

Hahahahhahaah…. What else can I say on this beside laugh out loud??? Hahahhahahahahahaa.. STUPID & BAD LUCK MAN.

Ya, I should translate or summarize a bit on the above news that I read from newspaper.

This 51 years old Mr. Asst Manager who has just married a VIETNAM WIFE is being abused and threatened by her. Not only she beat him up but she also threaten him that she might cut off his penis if he doesn’t send money [USD] to her family. (Hahahahahaha….)

This marriage has done within a month period. He brought her home immediately after the first meeting… (too desperate to fuck!) So, due to the urge of the Agent, they got everything done within a month. At first, this VIETNAM WIFE was very polite, nice, lovely and hardworking. However, everything changed after they married. The VIETNAM WIFE started to asked him to send USD to his family very often and the amount she asked for is not little but few thousand USD on every requests (Hahahaha… very syok when fucking oh?? You thought no need to pay for it ha??)

She will beat him up and threaten him that she will cut off his penis when he asleep whenever he refused to send her family USD. This Mr. Asst Manager very very scared and dare not to sleep deadly every night. He said that he has been abused not only physically but also mentally. Then only he found out accidentally that his VIETNAM WIFE actually been trained in the ARMY. So now he scared his balls out and asked our Mr. Michael Cheong to send his VIETNAM WIFE off. Mr. Asst Manager also give his ADVICE to those who wanted to marry Overseas girl.. "Be caution when you wanted to marry any of the overseas girl, do not repeat my steps."

LOLZ!!! I can’t stop laughing on this.

Quoted from the guy who I met in the wedding dinner.. "men, do think with their penis."

Me......

You are a warm hearted and open minded person. It's easy for you to forgive and forget.
You are a very grounded, responsible, and realistic person. People may not want to hear the truth from you, but they're going to get it. You believe that people see you as larger than life and important. While this is true, they also think you're a bit full of yourself. Your near future is a lot like the present, and as far as you're concerned, that's a very good thing.For you, love is all about caring and comfort. You couldn't fall in love with someone you didn't trust.

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Sometimes, I'm forgetful. Sometimes, I'm not. Very realistic... I won't take things dreamy... I have no idea why am I so realistic.. maybe because of what I have went through or maybe I'm born like this. I won't say something just to please someone, I will always tell da truth... whether you like it or not... very frank and straight forward. But of course that I do understand the useful of telling white lies. Still, white lies seldom comes from me... I'm honest to my own feelings.. love is love, hate is hate. I won't tell " I don't know whether I like you or not... I'm so confused." for me, it's "i like you." I don't like to make things complicated.

I'm full of myself, you may call me selfish but I do think on others too. Not everytime but sometimes. Do not ask my how often, but I do. I love what I am now, as long as my job is secure and long lasting... I will be happy enough... as long as I got enough money for me to shopping, pay loans, go for expensive coffee/ meals once a while, go for some entertainment once a while.. then I'm a very happy fella. I do not ask much from my life... I only wish to be healthy, going well with my family, have a understanding and loyal hubby, have a lovely beautiful daughter, and no need to worry about monies... then I'm happy. Am I important to others??? I have no idea.

Ya, every woman asked for that kind of life.. I'm same as them because I'm simple as them. I'm still incompleted because I haven't go to somewhere I wished that I am now.

意见。。。。。。

如果你心中已有决定， 那便不需问旁人什么意见。当旁人给予你他的意见，又没有意思接受的话，倒不如不必问。

当你已作了决定， 就别浪费别人的心得及思考时间。

Play boy......

Have met with some college mates on the wedding dinner. A girl told me that she feel so left out to the "new world"... So, as a curious person, sure I did ask her "why you said so?" Then only I found out that she met a PLAY BOY with socalled GF that only want sex from her. She feel so upset on him and keep asking herself.. "am I old fashioned or the world changed? Why no one really be sincere and take seriously on having a long term relationship?"

As I've been talking all the while... it's hardly to find someone who really SINCERE in a relationship. That's why I always very jealous on my friends who able to find someone that wanted to spend his life time with her.. of course, there has no guarantee on it. I'm not cursing anyone but .... it is the fact. Of course that we all wish that our marriage will last till the day we have our last breath.. but how many couples able to make this happend on this century?? I wonder.

Even though I have no confidence on relationship or marriage, but I still will go into it as I'm a person who needs love so much and I love to love someone who I love with all my heart.

OK, back to this girl. She is very very upset about this.... I told her, most of the single guy at our age now do not care to have LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP anymore as they can just simply get someone to settle their sexual desire. They do not go to prostitutes... but someone they know through net, or a "normal" friend or friend's friend... as long as they do not HATE your appearance.

Then the whole table of people joined the FORUM... lolzzzz.... according to the guys, it is depends on the individual.. not all the guys is like that. But they didn't deny that guys think with their penis. Hahahahahahha...... I like this. Men, think with their penis.

So, our conclusion to the Girl is, forget about the bastard and move forward. And we also concluded that the elder we are, the higher expectation we have on our BF/GF... that's why it's more difficult for us to get someone.

Sigh... relationship, love... are always complicated. MEN, rather be a playboy than stay in a long term relationship nowadays.... or they prefer to buy WIFE from Vietnam/ China/ etc than marry the local ladies... It's so sad!!!!

Maybe we should buy OVERSEAS HUSBAND too.... somemore we can choose on their looks, how long their penis is, how thick their penis is, how good is their stamina, how good is their oral skill, whether they can cook or not, how good are they in doing house works... bla bla bla... Ha!!! good idea worrrr... maybe we can start a business like that since there are quite a lot of Malaysian Ladies are single.

EH!!!! What a good idea!!!!!

Wedding #7

This is a great one!

Attended Wedding of SY & TH @ Restaurant Damansara Palace on 10.12.2006. I knew them for 11 years.. and they been together for almost 10 years. I'm really happy for them... both of them also my close friend... SY is one of my gang when we were in college... we always study together, completed our assignments together, we went karaoke always, we spend most of our college moments together.... we were seperated when she went overseas to further her studies in Australia... time fliess. She is a pretty girl, kind, understanding, very straight forward and direct but she is nice even though she does speak very loud sometimes And TH used to be a very close friend of mine too, we used to chat always on phone, in college and we always jokes around and tease each other. TH used to be a very good looking guy among his gang. He has the height, specky, fair, neat, decent looking, got sense of humour.

After 10 years of up & down... finally, they are married. Really feel touched and sweet when watching them smile happily when walking around. Both of them love to sing, karaoke is the place they spend most of their time. Hence, they sing when they make their entry to the restaurant..we all cheers for them.. shout and clapsss...

Met many of my old college mates there... most of them are married... some even pregnant or already be a mommy or daddy.. I really feel that I'm very old already. Looking back to the old time, we were so young, having fun around with an innocent smile on our face. Now, most of them have family, kids... and everything, everyone changed. Everything changed.

Some of our college mates unable to attend the dinner due to some emergency... Anyway, we did have our good time... and we do feel happy and blessed our good friend a wonderful and happy marriage.

Happy Marriage!!! SY & TH

Lovely!!!!!!!

Benefits Comestic Set [RM268.00]

Finishing Powder - 1

Blusher - 1

Mascara - 1

Dark Brown- Dorothy Perkins [RM116.00]

Brown - SEED [RM24.50]

Light Blue - PDI [RM19.5]

Remember that I've drafted a list of the x'mas gift that I wish I can get in this year.... I got one of them by yesterday.. It's a very early x'mas gift from SOMEONE.

Due to the wedding dinner tonight, I need to dress up like a peacock again... make up is a necessary then. So, I have to buy a product from my fav comestic counter in order to get the FREE full make-up from them. I was eyed on this comestic set anyway... and I was thinking whether should I really go for it or just get something that won't burn my purse. The comestic set is not cheap at all and that's why I can't make up my mind. SOMEONE said "I buy for you as your X'mas gift lah.." I'm shocked that he said that to me.. as I never expected that he will do so.. It's so lovely.. so sweet... Thankss, Honey.

And I finally able to find a dark brown sweater that looks good on me... from DOROTHY PERKINS.. the price is above average but it really feel comfortable and looks good on me... :P And I also bought myself 2 tops... they are 50% off from their original price, so it's OK for me to have them as I do need some new clothes for coming Chinese new year and my new job.

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The 3 magic words that you said means a lots to me... I feel so touch that I heard it from you..

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Too many wedding dinners caused my slimming plan has no progress. Hate it.

Thanks for the gift, Honey. I love it!! and it's very very very sweet of you... Thankssssss

Wedding #6

Attended this wedding dinner #6 @ Royale Bintang on 08.12.2006. It was my ex colleague's wedding dinner. However, it's not the traditional chinese style.. they make it a Pool Side BBQ Buffet Style. I was late due to the heavy rain, only reached the hotel by 8:30pm.. :P

The food are almost gone when I'm there. The management did not refill them but left them be empty... looks so undecent and not nice at all. The first impression for this hotel's F&B is already died! There is this BBQ area at the other side of the pool... of course, we do not need to BBQ the food by ourselves.

So, I saw my ex colleagues. We did chat awhile before some of them leaving as they got another appointment. Then left Ms. J and Ms. E and Ms. Js. Nothing much but just updating each other about ourself.

Left the dinner by 1020pm. Eat and leave is what I do not like about buffet style wedding dinner. I think I still prefer the old style chinese wedding dinner even though it is much more troublesome than buffet style.

For me, it doesn't really looks like a wedding dinner but just a gathering among friends that held by someone.

Christmas is coming......

Christmas is coming again.... Time flies... I'm getting older and older... What a life???

It's so fast that Yr 2006 is leaving us soon. Very fast... till we hardly remember what have we done in this year. When I'm 6 years old, I always wonder how am I looks like when I'm 18... when I'm 18 years old, I can't imagine what life I will have in my 28... When I'm 28, I'm wondering where is my prince of charms... Hahahahha... anyway, I still got years to 38 years old... Now, I'm thinking... will I be married when I'm 38?? Good question!!!

For Year 2006, the list of Christmas Gift for Ms. Lonely Heart will be as below : -

1. Benefit Comestic Set - [Arghhhhh!!! I'm so in love with this comestic!!!]
2. A Wedding - [Anyone?????]
3. Good Health - [Ya, need it as usual. Been having flu and cough for weeks, never recover from it... scary..]
4. Lose more weight - [as usual... but never make it... LOLZ ]
5. A stable & wonderful dream job - [I don't even know what's my dream job is..]
6. Strike lotteriessss - [Yes, I'm very greedy one...]

Basically, I realised something... the older I am.. the less material items I needed when I'm drafting my list of items that I wanted. Maybe I already owned most of the items that I needed, so now is more on health, stability of life, settle down. Ha!!! this also means that I'm actually climbing up the hill... but of course, there is long way for me to reach the top.

I think, what I wanted the most now is, a family. A family of my own... with a hubby that love me so much, take care of me so much, plus a little beautiful girl in a 1500 sq ft condominium. I drive a small little orange color NISSAN MARCH, my hubby owned a MERC 4 wheels drive. O!! ya, plus a loyal, good attitude maid. Kakakkaka..... I'm also a good cooker, cook my hubby delicious dinner every night when he return to home after a hard day from work. The condo is cosy, clean, tidy, neat, warm, full with laughter of the family members..... my hubby cuddle me while having the little beautiful girl of us on his lap.. chatting and laughing with us.

Aiyaa... I know it's time to dream!!!! LOLZ.....

Another hard day tomorrow... Nite, my future hubby and my baby girl... muaksssssss

Wedding #5

Last night attended Wedding #5 @ Bukit Jalil Golf Club House. I went with my new dress, very decent and beautiful. The food is so so. Saw alots of old neighbours as this is one of my mom's old friend's daughter's wedding.

Some of them looks the same, some of them looks different. Most of the aunties/ uncles already old... no longer the uncles/ aunties that in our heart. I still remember there is a Kedai Runcit near my house in B'field. The lady owner is very fierce, she always scold her sons and she hardly has smile on her face. We gave her a nickname - FIERCE GRANDMA. Why we called her GRANDMA?? It's because she looks old due to the face that lack of smile. Now, she looks much older than what I remembered. I heard that her sons left her, her husband passed away.. she is all alone now. Such a pity lady.

Then, I saw one of the man that used to stay in the same house with us - Ah Lai. He actually is the landlord's son, he stayed in the small room at the back of our house in B'field. He is a very quiet guy that always stay in his room, play guitar or read. He does has a small tv in his small room and that's his only entertainment. We hardly talk and he hardly walk out from his room. He does has some friends who love to play badminton like him. Ya, he always go to play badminton with his friends at the back of our flat. That's the only time we able to see his ACTIVENESS. My sister and my always asked him to help us to fix our badminton racket's net. He still has his big glasses, messy hair style, tall but with tummy now. Think that he is still single.. don't ask me why I said so, I just feel it that way.

I also met 2 of my childhood friends, they are both married. One already has a 5 months old daughter and another not yet has any baby. I'm the only one who still wondering around while they already busy with their own family life. Both of them grow fat, this is what happened to people with happy family life. I feel happy for them.... :)

This wedding dinner brought me back to my old memories... my childhood in Brickfields. I've been stayed in B'field for 12 years since I'm born. There has so much unforgetable memories.. those old friends, old neighbours, old building..... Awww... I'm so old already.....

Anyway, It's good to see them again... I have a happy childhood by the way... :)

Gift......

Got a gift for my best friend whose birthday is on 2nd Dec. Hope that he will like it.

我。。。。。。

我只不过是一个非常简单的女人。

我只不过是一个喜欢听甜言蜜语的女人。

我只不过是一个想被人疼的女人。

我只不过渴望他的爱。

我只不过想他陪伴我。

我只不过需要他在我身边。

我只不过想知道他爱我。

人生

人生其实是一场骗局
到最后，你会发现。。。
一切最重要的都变成不重要。。。