Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Hymen......

From the research of mine about hymen… the below are what I have found…

The hymen is a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina that partially conceals the vaginal orifice. You may or may not have one, most females do. The hymen is not an indicator of virginity; a girl is a virgin until she has been penetrated by a penis. During the early stages of fetal development there is no opening into the vagina at all. The thin layer of tissue that conceals the vagina at this time usually divides incompletely prior to birth, forming the hymen. The size and shape of this opening (or openings) varies greatly from person to person. Sometimes this formation of an opening does not occur, resulting in an imperforated hymen (it lacks the more common opening). Some females have no hymen at birth at all, since the tissue divided completely while they were still in the womb.
Many girls and teens tear or otherwise dilate their hymen while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics or inserting tampons, or while masturbating. A girl may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens. The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to
puberty. The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates whether or not a female is a virgin. * You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.* Some hymens are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or they tear only partially, and there is NO bleeding at all. When adequately lubricated the vagina is fairly 'flexible' and will stretch without discomfort for most women. Sometimes, a woman has sex for years with no real 'tearing' at all, only stretching of the hymen and then at another time the same woman might tear from 'rough sex' or sex with a different partner with a larger penis. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.”

Why I talk about hymen?? Because I noticed that some male chauvinist pigs still being very care about this not functioning layer of tissue and taking it as an indicator for purity of a girl.

As for myself, I broke my hymen on cycling when I was very young. So, does this means that I’m no longer an innocent girl just because I did not bloody bleed on my first sex encounter?? Such a bloody fucking nonsense… This is such an irritating idea created by those male chauvinist pigs.

So, the idea is, men can fuck around with no worry because they do not have the fucking hymen to prove that he is virgin or not, but ladies have to behave and only be fuck by one and only man who is her husband. Hell!!! Damn unfair!!!

Ladies!! Enjoy your life, follow your feelings. I’m not saying that we should fuck around, but at least we have to take charge of our body, our feelings, our will. Our life is not depends on someone, not control by someone. If someone do not respect us, do not need to give a fuck to them. We have our right to fight for what we really want in our life. We have the right to choose who to break our hymen. Our happiness is not depends on a fucking layer of tissue.

A man who does love you with his heart will not judge you based on a fucking piece of tissue. I strongly believe in this. Man who love you, will not care about the hymen. Unless himself is a virgin too!! I won't want a virgin boy at this age of mine, coz it will be too boring as I never a good teacher! Hahhahahaha...

Pigs!! Do you know that hymen can be re-build if we really want to do so???

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