Exactly.......

暧昧让人受尽委屈
找不到相爱的证据
何时该前进 何时该放弃
连拥抱都没有勇气
只能陪你到这里 毕竟有些事不可以
超过了友情 还不到爱情
远方就要下雨的风景
到底该不该哭泣
想太多是我 还是你
我很不服气
也开始怀疑眼前的人 是不是同一个真实的你
暧昧让人变得贪心
直到等待失去意义
无奈我和你写不出结局
放遗憾的美丽 停在这里

A new song from a Taiwanese female singer. A love song, referring to a guy and a girl that being very close but never to the stage of lover. The girl likes the guy, but the the guy never want to proceed on. So, the girl choosed to walk away. Telling the guy that's all she able to do for him, she unable to go further as that's already exceed the responsible of being friend. She feel disappointed and upset on the guy. Have no idea on what's in his mind. Losing her patient, waiting is no longer meaningful. The girl do not know what elso to do, keep on waiting or leave? At last, she choosed to leave as she realised that the guy is not treating her fair enough. It's not what she wants, but she has to leave for her own good. *End*

This song bring up the issue of most of the girls facing nowadays. I'm having this problem for twice. Guys are getting more and more complicated. They think too much when deciding to proceed on or not. The masculine guts no longer exist between men???? I wonder where goes the guts of men. Maybe I'm still staying in the old memories that man used to be a brave species. Protecting women, children. Decision making. Bearing all the hard works, responsibles. I can't see any male species around me with such qualities. I'm not saying that these qualities do not exist anymore. But, at least, I hardly found someone who come with this package. Hahahahaa...

Maybe human is getting more and more self centered. Female too of course. We are more concern on our own happiness than anything. I do understand that we have to make sure that we are happy before anyone else. I'm not asking you to force yourself to love someone you don't even like. Love won't happend if both parties do not have the sparks of love in her/ him.

I have no idea on what's in guys' thinking. They give you all his companion, treating you nicely, being close with you, flirting around with you, did all the things which should be done by a bf.. and then claims that he only taking you are a normal friend. Do you really treating all of your female friends the same? This is so confusing. Love is simple. Just as simple as ABC. They are only some optional questions with YES or NO for you to choose.

1. Do you like her? A. YES B. NO
2. Do you feel comfortable with her? A. YES B. NO
3. Do you wanna spend more time with her? A. YES B.NO
4. Do you miss her always when she is not around? A. YES B. NO
5. Do you think that she is compatible with you? A. YES B. NO
6. Is she the one you wanted to share everything? A. YES B. NO
7. Do you willing to know her better? A. YES B. NO
8. Do you willing to proceed on with her if there has a chance?
A. YES B. NO

** If the answer of YES exceed 5 - WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? WAIT FOR OTHER GUY TO GET HER HEART BEFORE YOU?
** If the answer of YES is between 3 to 5 - DO NOT TREATING HER TOO NICE AND MADE HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU WHILE YOU DO NOT HAVE THE INTENTION TO PROCEED FURTHER.
** If the answer of YES below 3 - GET YOUR ARSE OFF!! DO NOT CONFUSED HER.

Not difficult at all. YES or NO, the only answer. Just answer, YES or NO. We do not accept the answer of, 'I DON'T KNOW'/ 'I HAVE NO IDEA'/ 'I'M NOT READY'/ 'GIVE ME SOME TIME'.... do not give us all these nonsense, do not piss us off with these nonsense :)

Will you say this when there is a 36C-24-35 angel- like sweet lady telling you that she is in love with you? Nonsense. Girls are not stupid, we are stupid only when we are in love. We will wait and do all those silly things just for someone we love. We have our great senses on whether a guy care of us or not. But we choosed to act stupid, because we already in love with that dumb guy. Hahahahahaha....

Courage, the item that lack in men of today. Or they think too much for being in love or not? What's the problem of being in love? Love won't kill you. Do not want to hurt her feelings? You already did that by telling her so. If you have no special feelings on her, kindly stay a distance. Do not confused us. Do not give us hopes. Do not tell us all the nonsense as above. No wonder my gf told me that, it's getting difficult to find a mascular man [in term of the way they behave, their thinking..]. It's new centuries, everything changed..... women changed to be more independent, strong, decision making, responsible.... and... our lovely men changed too. Changed to unknown, unpredictable, complicated, sensitive, emotional, over worried.. :)

Anyway, this world still need couples to produce more human. Men are not that worthless afterall, some of them are lovely and sweet too. Men with some women's characteristics are the most lovely one as they know how we think. But, they only can be treated as our best buddy as they will never be in love with us. Hahahahaha....

Women and men still looking for their true love as usual. This will never change because Adam left his rib bone in Eve.